“Humor is mankind’s greatest blessing.” (Mark Twain, 1835--1910)
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I’ve been doing some serious thinking about humor. Until recently, I was unaware that ‘humor’
was the subject of serious discourse, not only among comedians, but among
philosophers and psychologists. I can
not recall any discussion of humor in my undergraduate Psychology classes. During medical school I was aware of the work
of Norman Cousins who documented the benefits of laughter in his recovery from
a serious chronic illness. A little later there was Doctor Patch Adams. But
otherwise, humor was not a subject taught in medical school. Now, 35 years later, I discover that there
are courses being taught on The Philosophy of Humor, texts written on The
Psychology of Humor, and labs studying the biology of humor.
As a child psychiatrist I had occasion to observe the
connection between humor and development.
The baby, mastering object constancy, gets a good laugh from
peek-a-boo. The young child, mastering
bodily functions, loves a good poop or fart joke. Children, as they learn to make friends and
identify with groups, often tell jokes ridiculing the outsider. With cognitive maturity, humor becomes valued
for its cleverness and originality. With
old age, bodily function, I fear, is once again the ‘butt’ of jokes.
As a child psychiatrist, I saw humor as a marker of good
mental health. I was always concerned
about a child who could not laugh. I was concerned about the parent and child
who could not share laughter with one another.
On many occasions, I advised parents to boost their child’s confidence
by teaching an important social skill. I
advised them to teach their child to tell a joke. Many took me seriously. A few thought I was joking.
I have learned that there is power in humor. It has power to heal or to wound, to bring
together or to alienate, to humanize or to marginalize. In individuals, laughter has been shown to have
power to reduce stress-related hormones, to reduce blood pressure, to help
alleviate pain, to improve immunity and, if I recall correctly, even to improve
memory.
There is political power in humor. In a democracy, humor is a force of
conscience and accountability. In a
despotic state, it is a threat to government stability. There was no late-night stand-up comedy in Hitler’s
Germany or Stalin’s Soviet Union. I
suppose that no ‘bad barber’ jokes are allowed in North Korea. Beware the government that frowns upon humor.
I once read a book about stand-up comedy. It said that comedy is mostly about either the hard, the weird, the scary, or the stupid. Involuntarily my thoughts drifted to politics which, currently, provides abundant material for the hard, weird, scary, and stupid.
So, help me with this one: The President, the Chief Justice, and the Speaker of the
House walk into a bar. The bartender
says, “What’ll you have?”
I need you to give me the punch line. I think I just lost my
sense of humor.
"To lack humor is to lack humility, lucidity, and lightness; the humorless person is too full of himself, too self-deceived, too severe, or too aggressive and thus lacks generosity, gentleness, and mercy . . ." (Andre Comte-Sponville)
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