Shared thoughts from a retired Child Psychiatrist, prior columnist, husband, father of 4, grandfather of 7.
Friday, February 19, 2021
Thursday, February 11, 2021
Questions
Often, I listen to Chris Cuomo and Don Lemon, political pundits on CNN. More often than not, I agree with their perspectives. However, they preach to the choir. I may occasionally gain a new insight but, for the most part, I have the same opinions when I turn them off as when I turned them on. Furthermore, I suspect that a hard-core ‘ReTrumplican’, tuning-in, would soon tune-out, angry and unconverted.
I occasionally try listening to Tucker Carlson, Sean Hannity, or Laura Ingram, political pundits on FOX News. I usually last about 5 minutes listening to their outrageous, one-sided commentary before I get so angry that I have to turn them off. They too preach to their choir and they fail to convert me. Frankly, I don’t want to be converted, but I do want to understand. It is so beyond my comprehension why so many continue to support Trump, that I want to ask questions. I want to understand.
So I imagine myself a reporter assigned to interview the Senators and Representatives that infuriate me, the ones I yell at when I see them on
television. My instinct would be to put on armor, dig in my heels, and prepare to challenge and dispute. But, to what
end? To embarrass them? To guide them to an epiphany? To hear them say I'm right? That’s not gonna happen.
I imagine another possibility. Suppose, as a
reporter, I give up any notion of trying to persuade and instead approach my interviews with curiosity, wanting only for myself to understand why they believe as they do. I confine myself
to questions, not manipulative Socratic questioning, but questions asked in sincerity.
“Please explain to me . . .”
Please
explain to me, “Make America Great Again”, what does that mean to you? What is
your vision of American Democracy? If
half the population is politically conservative and half the population is
politically liberal how does your vision of American democracy accommodate to
divergent agendas?
What do you believe are the principles that should guide the future of the Republican party?
Did you really and sincerely believe the election was stolen? What was the information that led you to your conclusion? Once the election had been certified by all the state attorney generals and upheld in the courts, did you believe then that the election was legitimate? How do you understand the events of January 6th?
I would try to listen, try to understand, when necessary ask for clarification, and try not to debate.
It doesn't work to be 'right'. It doesn't work to argue. It doesn't work to recite facts. Before I can expect someone to listen and learn, I must listen and be open to learning. And should opinions not change, understanding the perspective of the other might lead from animosity to respect.
And, in these times, respect is change.
Thursday, January 28, 2021
Wednesday, November 18, 2020
Blog Contents
1. The Quest (12/25/2018)
2. On Dogma and Militancy (12/27/2018)
3. The Thinker and the Doer (12/29/2018)
4. Attitude (12/31/2018)
5. Humor
(1/3/2019)
6. Spanking (1/6/2019)
7. Parenting (1/7/2019)
8. A Childhood Song (1/8/2019)
9. When I Was a Little Boy (1/10/2019)
10. Gratitude (1/12/2019)
11. Pretty Good (1/15/2019)
12. Electronics and Education (1/17/2019)
13. The Road Taken (1/21/2019)
14. Shakespeare and Me (1/24/2019)
15. Horse and Rider (1/28/2019)
16. A Point of Light (2/1/2019)
17. The Electronic Medical Record (2/3/2019)
18. After Life? (2/8/2019)
19. Making America (2/18/2019)
20. Powers of Ten (2/23/2019)
21. Poker (2/28,2019)
22. Mind Over Matter (3/6/2019)
23. Sam the Fisherman (3/8/2019)
24. Word Retrieval (3/12/2019)
25. Killing Time (3/15/2019)
26. Winter’s End (3/19/2019)
27. Myths and Manners (3/29/2019)
28. Precognition (4/1/2019)
29. Passover (4/7/2019)
30. Psychiatry and Religion (4/11/2019)
31. Being Thirty (4/15/2019)
32. Connect Four (4/23/2019)
33. Letting Go (4/27/2019)
34. An Educational Challenge (5/3/2019)
35. Medicine and Philosophy (5/12/2019)
36. The Name of the Rose (5/18/2019)
37. Nostalgia (5/22/2019)
38. Very Interesting (6/7/2019)
39. ADHD and Medication (6/13/2019)
40. My Father (6/15/2019)
41. Chiggers (6/20/2019)
42. Becoming Adult (6/23/2019)
43. The Book of Job (6/27/2019)
44. The Answer to “Why?” (7/13/2019)
45. Private Speech (7/16/2019)
46. Nature and Nurture (7/21/2019)
47. Diagnosing Autism (7/26/2019)
48. Ich und Du (7/30/2019)
49. Plausible Truth (8/7/2019)
50. Reading and Writing (8/11/2019)
51. This is Pickleball (8/19/2019)
52. Limitations (8/25/2019)
53. Silence is Olden (9/3/2019)
54. Enablers (9/9/2019)
55. My Vacation (9/28/2019)
56. Prayer (9/30/2019)
57. Fasting (10/6/2019)
58. Middlemarch (10/13/2019)
59. Ecclesiastes (10/13/2019)
60. Memories (10/19/2019)
61. American History (10/22/2019)
62. The Giving Tree (11/3/2019)
63. Discipline (11/6/2019)
64. November 22, 1963 (11/20/2019)
65. Challenged (11/22/2019)
66. Golden Rules (12/7/2020)
67. Brains (12/10/2019)
68. Behavior Mod (12/12/2019)
69. Mind and Brain (12/26/2019)
70. How to Be (1/4/2020)
71. Contradiction (1/13/2020)
72. Fair-Weather Fan (1/15/2020)
73. Broken (1/25/2020)
74. Selective Inattention (2/6/2020)
75. Leaders (2/9/2020)
76. Rush (2/12/2020)
77. Covid-19 (3/18/2020)
78. Because a Little Bug Went Ka-Choo (3/21/2020)
79. Existential Angst (3/31/2020)
80. Jigsaw (4/5/2020)
81. Dreams (4/22/2020)
82. Kafkaesque (4/23/2020)
83. It’s Fantastic (4/28/2020)
84. Stupidity (7/13/2020)
85. Touching Spirit Bear (7/22/2020)
86. Mark Twain and the Jews (7/29/2020)
87. Trump’s Win (8/1/2020)
88. God? (8/8/2020)
89. My Top-10 (8/11/2020)
90. Free Will (8/16/2020)
91. Gone Fishin’ (8/28/2020
92. Darwin’s Theory (9/5/2020)
93. Dear Dr. Phil (9/9/2020)
94. Human Nature (9/13/2020)
95. Love Letters (10/4/2020)
96. Do-Overs (10/13/2020)
97. Darth (10/16/2020)
98. Americans (11/12/2020)
99. Confirmation Bias (11/17/2020)
100.
The
End (11/18/2020)
Tuesday, November 17, 2020
Confirmation Bias
Justice Amy Coney-Barrett is clearly an accomplished, bright, and articulate juror. I don’t happen to agree with her conservative interpretation of constitutional law. However, partisan shenanigans aside, she was a worthy appointment to the Supreme Court.
During her
confirmation hearing, she responded to the Senators' questions with sound legal
theory and reasoning. But from a psychological
perspective, her explanations were nonsense.
She was trying to sell the idea that Supreme Court cases are decided
objectively, guided by philosophic principle, each case decided on its own
merits. Not so.
Human
behavior is hard to predict. But I believe
that a Supreme Court justice’s vote can be predicted with at least 90% accuracy. After all, no one is surprised when a
‘liberal’ judge votes liberally or when a ‘conservative’ judge votes
conservatively. However, when Chief
Justice Roberts voted with the liberals on an Affordable Care Act case, some were pleasantly surprised, but others were shocked and dismayed. The liberal judges weren’t criticized for
voting liberally. The conservative
judges weren’t criticized for voting conservatively. That’s what everyone expected. But when Judge Roberts did not vote with the
conservatives, as predicted, he was roundly criticized. His vote, in that case, was the exception
that proves the rule.
If each court
case was really decided objectively, only upon its own merits, then the outcome
could never be so predictable. Something
else is going on. That something else
is, in psychological terms, called confirmation bias.
Psychologically,
we often don’t base our beliefs upon facts, we find facts compatible with our beliefs. We often don't make decisions based upon facts, we find facts that support our decisions. Simultaneously, we deny, ignore, or dispute any contradictory facts.
I assume
that each of the Supreme Court justices are the best of the best jurists. I assume that cases brought to the court are
highly complex, often ambiguous, with many facts and precedents to consider,
and with compelling arguments presented from both sides.
In complex court cases, being considered by the best of minds, each judge must review many facts, often contradictory facts. Then, if I am correct (and I am), they base their judicial opinions on the facts that best conform to their biases. Conversely, they deny, ignore, or dispute any facts that may seem contradictory. There is no such entity as a judge that is objective and without bias. That’s just not human psychology. If you know where a Supreme Court judge is on the political spectrum, then you know how the Supreme Court judge will vote, at least 90% of the time.
Ironically, confirmation bias seems to have a double meaning. I didn’t need the recent Senate confirmation hearings to know how each of the Senators would vote. Senators selected or ignored facts, as the facts did or did not conform to their biases, but facts never changed a single vote. The votes, for or against Judge Coney-Barrett’s confirmation, were preordained. The confirmation hearing was nonsense, a waste of time and energy. I can confirm that, without bias.
Thursday, November 12, 2020
Americans
"Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it." (George Santayana, 1863-1952)
“Un-American.”
That’s what a T.V. commentator called the
70-million Trump voters. I disagree. That would be like saying that the throngs of
adoring Germans were ‘un-German’ as they stood shoulder to shoulder in pre-war Nuremberg
square shouting “Seig Heil!” To the contrary, they were very German. They stood there able to overlook the lies and
rantings of a charismatic madman, because he promised to make Germany great
again. The German economy was improving.
Inflation was contained. The trains ran on time. The military was rebuilding. After the humiliating
World War I surrender, Germany was once again emerging as a major power on the
world stage. The common man, the disaffected
and forgotten German citizen, now felt a rising sense of power, purpose, and
pride.
German
history, German culture, and German literature would be cleansed,
decontaminated from the influence of Jews, Socialists, and other undesirables. Beautiful Aryan children would be taught a
new and noble German narrative from an early age. From Germany would rise a new generation of
uber-menschen, supermen.
Socialism,
with its global agenda, was the political enemy without and was effectively
silenced by brown-shirted thugs. The only significant obstacle between the
German people and true greatness on the world stage was the conspiracy of the
plotting “international Jew.”
Fast forward
to the pre-election MAGA rallies, the mini-Nurembergs, with adoring Trumpers,
unmasked, standing shoulder-to-shoulder chanting “lock ‘em up’ or ‘fire Fauci’.
Only the stiff-armed salute was missing. The 70-million who voted for Trump are
not un-American. They are very American,
a new kind of right-wing conservative American as defined by Trump and endorsed
by Hannity and Ingraham and Carlson, by Ted Cruz and Jim Jordan and Lindsey
Graham, by Bill Barr and Mike Pompeo, by Mitch McConnell and Mike Pence.
These new Americans
scare me. They promote conspiracy theories, and ignore facts and science. They rely heavily on insults, threats, and banners,
but seem deaf to reason. They value
the Dow Jones, the second amendment, and their inalienable rights, but mock integrity, responsibility, and decency.
What is
happening to my country? Why did
70-milliion citizens vote for Trump? Why
do so many Republicans continue to openly support this sociopathic president, and
his unsubstantiated claims of election fraud and conspiracy? Why have so many other
Republicans in power been silent?
Why, in the
1920’s and 30’s, did the arguably most cultured and enlightened of all European
nations embrace the falsehoods and conspiracy theories of the
lunatic Hitler? Because he made the
trains run on time? Because he made Germany
great again? Far too many Germans enthusiastically
supported Hitler. Too many others remained silent, and we know the consequences.
American is not Germany, Donald Trump is not Hitler, and The Art of the Deal is not Mein Kampf. But human nature and mob psychology are the same, then and now. Trump is petty, vindictive, powerful, and dangerous. He lost the election. And yet far too many Republicans, good Americans who know this to be true, remain silent. Do they not remember the past?