“The development of the child’s soul is connected
indissolubly with his craving for the Thou . . .” (Martin Buber, 1878--1965)
As a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, I witnessed the
corrosive power of electronic media on children’s behavior, education and
socialization. Of all I witnessed,
perhaps the most disturbing was the negative impact on the interactions between
children and parents. Children and parents spoke less to each other, played
less with each other, and looked less at each other.
Every day, I reminded parents of the importance of being
parents; unplugging, monitoring the electronics, setting limits and having
rules. I encouraged children and parents
to read together, play games together, have conversations together, be present,
engaged and undistracted together.
Yet, at a time when I was informing families about the
importance of turning off screens and making eye-contact, I was under pressure
to turn away from my patients and towards a computer screen. I was expected to embrace technology that promised
to enhance and revolutionize medical care. Medicine had entered into the age of
the electronic medical record, the extraordinarily labor-intensive and
time-consuming electronic medical record.
An article in the Journal of the American Medical
Association had this to say about the skills required of the future physician. “In addition and most importantly, the physician will have virtuoso data entry and
retrieval skills, with an ability to talk, think, listen, and type at the same
time rivaling that of court reporters, simultaneous interpreters, and
journalists on deadline.” (JAMA, June
12, 2014 – Vol 309, No. 22, pg 2385)
I, a physician of the past and present, who happens to be significantly
challenged in data entry and retrieval skill, was at first offended, next
bewildered and then outraged. Is this
true? Will this be the next generation
of doctors? What about ‘bedside manner’,
compassion, integrity, and problem solving, virtues I always thought defined
the desired skillset of the physician?
I know when I was a medical student, my teachers worried
about my generation of doctors. My teachers lamented that my generation was
becoming enamored with laboratory tests and radiologic studies. They feared we were losing the skills of
taking a good history and a doing a thorough physical exam. My teachers feared that laboratory tests would
replace the physician’s skilled and observant eyes, ears and hands. To a large extent, they were right.
Now, having been teacher to a new generation of doctors, I
fear that as technology is embraced and becomes the norm, the young physicians
will sacrifice yet another powerful tool for diagnosis and healing . . . the power
of relationship.
Societally, relationship seems to matter less. Where once I-Thou mattered, it is an increasingly
I-it world. I-Thou and I-it are concepts
of dialogue and relationship from theologian and philosopher Martin Buber. I-it is the nature of most interactions. I-it interactions can be pleasant and
friendly, but I-it interactions are impersonal, the exchange with one another
often being a means to an end. I-Thou
occurs only when one is fully present in the company of the other, listening,
engaged, undistracted. It involves not
only eye contact, but I-contact,
full presence.
I have recently retired.
A new generation of doctors will determine how medicine will be
practiced. Will they practice I-it or I-Thou?
Will they integrate virtuoso data entry and retrieval skills and still remain present, able to respond with compassion and humanity? What’s at stake is not only how they will
practice, but the example they will set, how they will model for the patients, parents
and children who will seek their guidance.
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